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Thursday, 27 December 2012

Flash Blog Friday Linky Party


I'm tired. That wake up in the morning and feel like you have not slept kind of tired. That kind of tired that cold showers and strong coffees don't fix. That kind of tired that makes you think all day about the nap you want but know you're not going to get. I have officially hit the wall.

I knew this would happen. It is the culmination of a busy and overcommitted year where you simply push from one event and one commitment to the next. Most of these commitments have now been met and I am free to drop my bundle and so I have.

I have fairly well quit cooking, failed to pick up any toys and can not find the will nor the energy to fold that basket of washing let alone do any more. Bundle officially dropped.

I have about a week and a half before I have to return to work and a few of those days have been marked for the Squishy to spend the day with his carer, first to give the hubby and I some quality time and second to keep him in routine. Today was the first day he was cared for while we remained at home. I felt guilty and I missed him. Much to the relief of my conscious he had a wonderful day and he will go back tomorrow despite my guilt because I know I need time to find the energy to positively confront the year ahead.


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I want the year ahead to be less committed which I find challenging because there are so many things I want to do, want to learn and want to achieve. I just can't do it all at once despite regularly convincing myself that I can.

I tried to have a bloggy break this week, thinking it would be good for me, but I just found that I wanted to write and I missed the process, so my bloggy break has been cut short. It might be a sign of my compulsive inability to rest, but I don't think so. I want to write because I enjoy it. In its own way it is restful.

So today I will sit with my mother and my sisters and finish my hand sewing and this afternoon, for the first time in a long time, the hubby and I will pull out the fishing rods and go fishing together.

I'm hoping that with each day that passes and with each gentle task, I'll find the energy to launch into 2013 with passion.



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posted by Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye @ 20:27   25 Comments

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At Friday, 28 December, 2012 , Blogger Pride In Photos said...

Bree, I totally understand where you are coming from. The holidays and all the frenzy wears a person out!!! Take care of yourself.
Happy New Years to You.
Laurie

 
At Friday, 28 December, 2012 , Blogger Francesca Writes Here said...

Oh I know that end of year weariness. It's hard when there's so much you want to do and the energy levels just don't keep up!

Look after yourself and I hope you and hubby catch a fish!
xx

 
At Friday, 28 December, 2012 , Anonymous Kez said...

Hope you feel more energised soon! I relate to this feeling SO much. I sometimes even get it every month or two - my husband does shift work and I just seem to go and go and go...until I can't anymore. That's when I know me-time is very important!!! Enjoy it and don't feel guilty - you need it!!!

 
At Friday, 28 December, 2012 , Blogger Joyce Lansky said...

Blogging certainly serves a purpose. When I feel worn out, I get a B12 shot. It tends to pick me up; however, you may not notice a difference the first month. The serum needs to build in your system.

http://joycelansky.blogspot.com/2012/12/gbe2-decisions.html

 
At Friday, 28 December, 2012 , Blogger Sarah said...

Oh I feel I could have written this, I am right there with you! And I have a sink of dishes from earlier today and a basket full of not put away laundry to prove it. Lack of motivation is bringing me down and I've dubbed it the End Of The Year Blues. But like you I'm hoping it will pass quickly and I can find some inspiration to begin another year, as you put it, with passion!

 
At Friday, 28 December, 2012 , Anonymous Kirsty @ My Home Truths said...

I was supposed to be on a blogging break too - I have failed miserably! But I feel much less pressure so I think I am getting a sort of break, after all. I hope you can find more balance for yourself next year. I know that I find it hard to say no so I find myself over-committed quite regularly - I hope you can take it a little easier in 2013.

 
At Friday, 28 December, 2012 , Blogger Dagmar said...

Hi Bree, well put and I believe a lot of other moms, including me, can sympathize with your feelings. I just mentioned in another post, Parents Against Violence, how I want to slow down in 2013 to take it all in more. After the Sandy Hook tragedy, a lot of little worries just don't matter anymore, and I just want to enjoy life more and enjoy my family more.

 
At Friday, 28 December, 2012 , Blogger Irfan Butt said...

following you from the hop! follow me back..
http://fashionwithfitness.blogspot.com/

 
At Friday, 28 December, 2012 , Blogger Anne @ Domesblissity said...

Hi Bree. I know exactly what you mean. Is it awful of me to look forward to when the kids go to their father's. I do love them more when they're away (or asleep). LOL I was remembering back, to only a short time ago, when they used to play really well for hours on end and there were no arguments. Hah! Those were the days. I guess its all about life and learning. In the meantime, where's that chocolate? LOL Happy New Year to you Bree!

Anne xx

 
At Friday, 28 December, 2012 , Blogger Judy Haughton-James said...

I know that feeling of being tired even when one seems to have had a good night's rest. I keep saying I am going to take it easy for awhile but I find that in recent years I just keep on the go. As a matter of fact I find it very difficult to rest during the day or be inactive. I think it is my way of coping with some of my experiences in life. Anyway I do find time to do Yoga and meditate. Have a good time fishing with your husband and being with your mother and sisters. I also wish you and your family a great weekend. Thanks for hosting.

 
At Saturday, 29 December, 2012 , Blogger Paula Miller said...

Hugs Bree!! I'm having the same exhaustion feelings this week. My husband says he thinks I overdid it this holiday. All I can think is "REALLY???" I overdo it everyday!!

Wishing you a good start to the New Year and that you feel better soon!

Paula
lifeasweknowitbypaula.blogspot.com

 
At Saturday, 29 December, 2012 , Anonymous Teresa from NanaHood said...

Bree, Motherhood makes you tired! I know. I raised 5 and I have been tired since 1981, the year my first child was born. Enjoy and savor the moments....they make minutes and minutes make days and before you know it you will be celebrating your babies 21st birthday (like me). Hugs to you dearie!

Teresa

 
At Saturday, 29 December, 2012 , Blogger Michell @Prowess and Pearls said...

Hi Bree! Thanks for hosting! I know exactly how you feel. I've slept for the past three days...recovering from Christmas, lol. :) Sort of like the week you need to recoup AFTER your vacation? :-) Hope you had an awesome Christmas in spite of! Have a great weekend!

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

Thanks Michell. Feeling better already :-)

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

My mother had five and she felt like she slept walked through 20 years! Motherhood is indeed tiring. Happy birthday to your boys :-)

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

Overdoing it everyday is right! End of year funk I think. But feeling better already.

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

Thanks Judy. I have had an opportunity for a few sleep in's and a couple of afternoon naps and they have done wonders. Happy New Year to you :-)

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

I consider going to work a break! Lol. Little blighters - they are exhausting!

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

It certainly brings things into perspective.

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

May 2013 be less committed and less stressful for both of us Kirsty!

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

Well I'm feeling better already and I hope you are too. If we don't our homes will meet a quick and ugly demise lol

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

That's interesting to note. I think I just need a few opportunities to sleep in and few afternoon naps and I'll be right. I hope!

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

Ah mother guilt, I'm sure I'm stuck with it for the next 18 years!

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

Thanks Francesca. A few afternoon naps will hopefully fix it!

 
At Tuesday, 01 January, 2013 , Blogger Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye said...

Thanks Laurie. I'm feeling better already :-)

 

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