Meet Beck. Beck is The Rambling Mummy and here she talks about the benefits and challenges of being a full-time working mother to two gorgeous children.
Introduce yourself Hi I’m Beck. I’m a 26 year old working Mum.
Introduce your family I’m married to Ryan. I met Ryan when I was nineteen, it was very much love at first sight. Since we met we are lucky to have spent a weekend apart from each other. We have two beautiful kids, Campbell who is two and a half, and Charli who is seven months.
You're a full time working mother. What motivated you to return to work full-time? Money! We have bills coming in left right and centre. I could have stayed at home a bit longer but we wanted to be able to give our children the best. I don’t want them to miss out on something they need because we can’t afford it.
How have your family benefited from your decision to work full-time? We have been able to do so much more together. We make a real effort to do a family activity every month, like going to the zoo, or a weekend getaway.
What have been some of the challenges? Everyday has a challenge. It may be trying to get the house tidied, dinner cooked and spending time together or it could be my little melt down because I miss the kids!
What things would make your life easier, trying to balance full time work and family? Working together with hubby helps a LOT. We are very much a team with the kids. We get an hour and a half with the kids before bed time during the week so we plan a lot on the weekends so that week nights are easier. We cook a lot of bulk meals so all we need to do is heat and eat during the week. Also my slow cooker has been put in to over drive. We use it about 4 times a week now. We have also recently purchased a dishwasher and I can’t wait for it to arrive! A good chunk of our time in spent cleaning, hopefully this will give us more time with the kids.
What have been other people's reaction to your choice to return to work full-time? I’ve copped a lot of negative comments for returning to work. Mostly other mums with the comment “how can you leave your children”. It really upset me at first, I wanted to be with my babies more than anything but it was going to get to the point of not being able to put food on the table. As a family we decided it was the best option. I try not to let all the comments bother me anymore, we did what was best for OUR family.
You're a fabulous blogger, tell us about your blog and what motivated you to start? I originally started blogging as a way to keep in contact with a friend that had moved to Queensland. It then turned into a way for me to document Campbell’s life and now it is my little place to share my story with others. The Rambling Mummy is my place to vent, cry, laugh and remember every little moment.
Where can people find your fabulous blog? The Rambling Mummy can be found here and also on Facebook.
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i'm sorry that other mothers make you feel bad about your parenting decisions. To be perfectly honest, food is kinda important! x
ReplyDeleteMy thought too Kim-Marie! Different things work for different families particularly when they are under pressure in some way.
DeleteThanks Kim-Marie. Its is nice to know there are others out there supporting me.
DeleteI got that too Bec, I have 5 children and have always worked. Then, after I went back when number 5 was 5 months I was attacked left right and centre. Eventually I left because 3/5 were in child care and it was taking up 95% of my wage. After that I copped it for "being at home collecting welfare. Even though the hubs works and we are not, people just assume it. I have learned to do whatever we as a family need and forget what anyone else thinks never feel you need to justify the decisions you make or yourself and your family
ReplyDeleteGood for you Mel.
DeleteI work full ime but have never copped flack for it. I can't imagine how you felt. I don't actually like working full time but like you it's about money. Like now, I'm going to take my daughter to the snow as we both need a break - me mentally and to also give my daughter quality mum time, especially around father's day as her dad is overseas. without money I couldn't do this. All power to you mama
ReplyDeleteEvery one's journey is different and we all balance things in the best way we know how. Have a lovely trip to the snow!
DeleteWow! I can't believe Charli is 7 months already!
ReplyDeleteIt has gone SO quickly
DeleteCharli is so cute I love seeing her squishiness on instagram
ReplyDeleteThanks xxx
DeleteLove getting to know Beck!! :) thanks for sharing a great profile of one of my fave bloggers!!
ReplyDeleteyou have been visited by a member of #teamIBOT :)
Thanks for visiting Yvette :-)
DeleteGreat profile and nice to hear more about Beck x
ReplyDeleteOh Beck, anyone who knows you wouldn't dare judge you. You have made the right choices for your family, and there is nothing wring with that!
ReplyDeleteToo right Jess!
DeleteThank you Jess, the support means the world
DeleteI'm sorry you had to deal with flack about going back to work. I am in awe of full-time working mothers. I struggle with cooking and housekeeping... and I'm home full time!
ReplyDeleteI'm with you Helen, don't know how they manage it. I would need paid help!
Delete'Mummy Politics' has been pretty big news lately, and i think people are really just starting to put their foot down and demand others pull their heads in. My Husband and I have back and forthed the working thing at various times. He worked right after I had our first, then we both part timed for a while, then he became a house husband and I worked, NOW I'm cooking away on our second (which is giving mummy some grief) so I'm home again and he's back to working.
ReplyDeleteIt'd be great if it were the 30s and families could afford to exist on a single income, but it can just be too hard. You love your children, and seeing the effort you put in for them and your family is going to allow them to understand what work is, and what you get for it. It's a balancing act, but no two people have the same center of gravity do they?
It is definitely the hardest job in the world and women do themselves no favours by judging one another. Support ladies, that's what we all need!
Deletemommy politics are never ending - i get them all the time - it's no fun
ReplyDeleteXo Megan
Just have to choose your own path and walk it with confidence, that's all any of us can do. Cheers Megan.
DeleteLovely Bree and Beck. I love what you are doing here Bree. I attempted something similar last year at http://motherink.org...but have found it hard to source stories and experiences. You have gone about it the right way obviously. It's a privilege to have insight into other's lives, and you give us a further opportunity to understand life from another perspective. x
ReplyDeleteThanks Zanni. I agree it is important to view life from other perspectives, particularly in relation to mothering.
ReplyDeleteI love your babies.. every time I see an instagram of Charli I get clucky..she is so beautiful! x
ReplyDeleteThanks Sarah. Charli seems to have the influence on a lot of ladies :)
DeleteThat was fun! So nice to peak inside the lives of others. I love the little photo montage thingo. Very clever.
ReplyDeleteLeanne @ Deep Fried Fruit
Thanks :)
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